.::.Breathe and Think.::.

Kalau mengikut Kamus Dewan Edisi Keempat terbitan Dewan Bahasa dan Pustaka yang ada tercongok kat rak buku gabak dalam bilik ni, Ustazah tu maknanya; guru agama (perempuan).

Okay,tu cuma muqaddimah je..

I couldn't quite remember how many times I've been in the situation, but there's this one time that I remembered the most.
I was at a hospital, nak melawat ex-classmate time kat CFS PJ who got into an accident. Me and my friends entered the elevator and i saw a bunch of kids kat dalam lif tu with their parents..or was it..relatives? -shrugs- couldn't remember.eheh. And as they saw us, i heard one of the kids said to the other, "Wahh..ramainya ustazah kat sini.." with a hint of sarcasm.

To be completely and honestly honest..what the kid had said irked me..or in another word, i felt annoyed.
Oh..before i continue, maybe i should tell anyone who bothered to read this that i wear a 50" tudung,sometime 55"..both tudung Akel and tudung bawal..and so do most of my friends who were with me that day. So..you kinda get the idea why the kid had called us ustazah..right? :D and oh..we were wearing baju kurungs and jubah that day if i were not mistaken, sebab baru balik dr kelas.hahaaa
ok..sambung cerita..

Irked and annoyed (same je la tu) were what i felt...not because i dislike the title 'ustazah' or something..but because what i had in mind was, the kid was being sarcastic, seeing us wearing tudung besar & berbaju kurung macam tu.....OR..maybeee...i might be thinking too much at that time..ntah2 budak tu inesen je cakap camtu becoz in the kid's mind..tudung besar/labuh + baju kurung/jubah = ustazah kat sekolah. MAYBE the kid (i keep on using 'the kid' bcoz i couldn't remember whether it's a girl or a boy.i have TERRIBLE MEMORY.oh yes.) didn't mean to be sarcastic at all..maybe it's just me being paranoid..just maybe.
So, the point is..
I've come to realize that i shouldn't feel annoyed even if budak tu memang saje sarkastik that time..i could have taken it as a du'a that one day I (and maybe my friends as well) can actually become an ustazah..an ustazah for my friends..an ustazah at home,for my family,my children in the future..bukanlah maksudnya nak ngaja agama secara formal macam kat sekolah tu..but maybe to teach and share any religious knowledge (read: Islamic knowledge) which can lead us straight to His blessing and jannah. Insya Allah.

But then again...another confession..
Since i started my schooldays..i've been surrounded by people who have the same 'fashion' or 'style' like me (buat2 paham la ye), dari sekolah rendah sampai le uni. So, what i've been wearing was never an odd thing when i'm with them. But as i grow older...and yes,i'm definitely OLDER now, bila dah lagi banyak berjalan2 kat luar,more exposed to other people..i can't help but to notice that there are some people who'd still stare and look weirdly at me like i'm some kind of..er..alien?Sigh.
But (bape kali but dah ni..hahaha)..no worries!i shall prevail! eh..tetibe :P
Semoga Allah Taala beri kekuatan untuk terus istiqamah dan berusaha untuk memperbaiki diri..coz i know, i'm still lacking a lot..A LOT..

Imam Muslim meriwayatkan di dalam Shahihnya dari jalan Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu’anhu, dia berkata; Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda, “Islam datang dalam keadaan asing. Dan ia akan kembali menjadi asing sebagaimana kedatangannya. Maka beruntunglah orang-orang yang asing itu.” (HR. Muslim [145] dalam Kitab al-Iman.Syarh Muslim, 1/234).

Semoga kita sama2 tergolong dalam golongan orang2 yg asing tu..amin~

Cacing saya cacing rainbow!

hujan rintik-rintik,kena cacing saya

I never expect that to spark creativity in someone's mind is quite challenging.in the first place, I thought we just need to describe things like the color,shape than that's it!people can just easily imagine and draw what we expect them to draw.But obviously,I don't know how many time I look at the kindergarten teacher(the power of non-verbal communication..haha!) to help me to make those kids imagine and start to draw..

Spending half day with these kindergarten kids really give me something.Who would expect them to give such answer(the above dialogue) when I actually try to give them hint about worm.Even me myself,I think I'm going to give other answer rather than what he had gave me(oh malunyer!!!).It really surprised me you know but ya,I did gave him some feedback which I wish that I could give him another better answer which I only thought after the program ended..huhu

Despite all the hyperactive reactions they gave(budak-budak la katakan) which really made us sore throat, they did made us smile.These kids are actually from Little Caliphs.So they answer some basic questions like "how are you?" in kind of Islamic way and of course in English(until my chinese team leader taught another answer..hahah)..They are just taught that way what.so?ahah!that's the point!

peace yo!!

Kids are so pure which everyone knows.They can easily accept what are taught to them no matter verbal or non-verbal..So I see that early education is very important which again I believe everyone knows too.But yet,people usually just let go the responsibilities to teachers at school without realizing (or maybe forgot?) that the true early education starts at home or to be more precise from the parents.So, what are we fussing about when we are not even married to have children?Yeah,but we do have nephews,nieces,small sisters or brothers or young ones in our family or at least around us right?

As I said before,kids can easily imitate us.So, don't expect them not to lie when we always lie to them that we promise to give them sweets or ice-cream just to make stop crying.But later on, we don't even give even a bite.Oh another one.be careful with how we respond to them because it may affect them later on.I give you an example which I used to hear..an adult used to scold kid when they start to ask this and that.But then, when the kid grown up,that kid is scolded by the adult for not being active in class by asking questions.How??

ehehehehh..

I believe answering small kids' questions aren't easy which me myself start to experience it when my 1 year and 9 months old nephew ask this and that.Even to answer him "papan iklan" after he pointed it also made me asking my sister either to answer "papan" or "iklan" as "papan iklan" is too long for him(ni belum lagi soalan yg lebih mencabar..huhu).But at least try our best to treat them by giving them some answers.They are learning and so do us. For me, it would be an honor to be part of their learning process.a positive one of course!!and especially when you see your little one growing up as a good person..^_^


p/s: After second thought, I am willing to go to kindergarten again to teach kids after refusing to do so in the first place.But before that,full bar of energy need to be prepared!

WARNING: POST PANJANG..NGAAAAAA


Tiba-tiba teringat sesuatu..suatu catatan daripada satu pengisian..
Buku nota bercorak jalur2 berbagai warna diambil dari tempat asalnya;rak buku bertentang dengan katil. Dibelek-belek muka suratnya hingga ditemui apa yang dicari...

"Every pious person has a past"
"A sinner has a future"

Syaikh Dawood Butt said those words sebagai ala2 muqaddimah for his session that evening..and actually that session's title was.."Me and My Other Half" *cough2*.Don't get me wrong..i'm not going to rant about camne nak pilih pasangan and whatnot..at least,that won't be the main topic here..ahaks~

Still..it's interesting how the syaikh started his session/talk with those words. The moment he said those words, i could felt how true they were..

"Every pious person has a past"
"A sinner has a future"

Sejarah silam yang hitam or tak berapa putih..dark sides..if tak semua orang pun,most of us have those, right? Mungkin ada orang yg dulu pernah bercouple tanpa kenal batas, takde kesedaran nak tutup aurat properly, tak kenal or buat2 tak kenal yang haram & yang dilarang..and the list goes on..Tapi tak selamanya mereka2 yg buat semua tu akan bergelumang dlm tu kan?

Ada je yg,bak kata Inche Gabbana tauke blog APG, disapa atau ditegur oleh mak cik 'hidayah' dan alhamdulillah berubah jadi baik..and like my sister, Yah said, and i'm sure most of you dah lama agree with this statement; mereka2 yg pernah jadi 'jahat' or 'nakal' ni, once diorang berubah..as in bertaubat dan yg sewaktu dengannya..diorang bole jadi lg bagus,lg baik,lg soleh/solehah dr insan2 yg dah sedia baik dr dulu..err..i mean insan2 yg tak penah buat benda2 dasat la..
You know why?because..if according to me la..their guilt will make them more ikhlas untuk dekatkan diri pada Allah SWT..the thought of their dosas (read = dosa2) will make them lagi bersungguh2 untuk bertaubat..the feeling of once being distance from Him will make them wants to mengenali Allah SWT dgn lagi dalam..tak ke? 

On the other hand..the way i see it..or the way i personally feel..orang2 yg dah sedia 'baik' dari dulu ni, they think they don't have to do better ibadah-wise,character-wise etc..senang citer yg rasa dah dalam "comfort zone" ni la (tersedak jap). Rasa ibadah dah cukup..rasa diri dah cukup baik..but actually,i f you look deeper, there's still a lot more holes or gaps or..hm..room (?) for improvement. Iman kita sentiasa naik dan turun..ye dak? And sebenarnye..bagi insan2 yg dah ada dalam comfort zone ni sejak lahir lagi,eventho tak pernah ade rekod buat jenayah or dosa berat2, ade jek benda2 'tak best' yg dibuat..be it small or big.examples are; mengumpat,perasan diri bagus(read - 'ujub), tak jage adab dgn ibu bapa kawan2 or guru2,suka membazir... tho all the things mentioned just now tak dipandang berat by most people..tp it really can have negative effects on us..

So..insan2 yg dlm comfort zone tu pun kena selalu refleksi dan koreksi diri (e eh..i mean myself pon included la..) sebab kita tak tau amalan yg kita buat tu betul2 diterima Allah ke..?kita dah dapat redha Dia ke..?kita dah betul2 tutup aurat properly ke...?kita dah guna masa kita dengan sewajarnya ke..?kita dah tunaikan tanggungjawab amar makruf nahi mungkar ke..?Gulp.(eh..tertiru gaya orang tu pulak.eheh). 

*Lap peluh* Huhu..'ter'panjang plak post yg ni :-P 
Kesimpulannya..jangan pandang orang2 yg dlm kategori 'teruk' ni macam pandang kucing kurap or like they're some low-life..sbb mana tau,bila Allah SWT dah bukak pintu hati diorang,diorang bole lg jadi lg super duper hebat dari kita..and..bagi mereka2 yg Allah SWT dah pelihara dari buat benda2 dasat like i mentioned before..bersyukurlah..and, bila dah ada 'tag' baik or rasa cam diri tak penah pun buat benda bukan2, kena ingat yg tu bukan tiket utk melepaskan diri dari memperbaiki diri..memperelokkan diri..(dalam mau kira ye..bukan luaran..eh,tp bab aurat tu include skali la :D)

p/s: This is only MY interpretation of ayat2 Syaikh Dawood tu..mungkin ada explanation/interpretation yg lain skit according to others..

Kalau ada tersilap kata..mintak ampun..Ramadhan Kareem! (lg 16 hari je tinggal T_T)

Salam 'alaik..

Apa khabar semua?semoga sihat dan di bawah rahmat-Nya selalu..dah lama sebenarnya tajuk post ni berada dalam draft tapi isi nye je yang tak muncul-muncul..secara asasnya, post ni bukanlah bertujuan untuk bercerita tentang "angry bird" junior...tapi sebenarnya merujuk kepada seorang budak perempuan yang berbaju "angry bird" yang menarik perhatian bukan sahaja saya tapi juga beberapa sahabat saya yang lain semasa menyertai Baktisiswa pada bulan Mac yang lepas..

Si kecil ni saya jumpa di masjid dalam waktu zohor dan umurnya saya anggarkan lima tahun...apa yang buat saya kagum ialah:

1)si kecil ni masuk bilik wudhu' tak lama lepas saya dan mestilah sebab dia nak berwudhu' kan..jadi,saya pandang-pandang juga lah cara dia wudhu' memandangkan dia sebelah saya je..hebat!!!dalam usia yang muda sebegitu,saya boleh katakan caranya sgt baik dan memang macam dah biasalah...mesti mak dia ajar dari awal lagi(ni sangkaan saya lah..kalau tak takkan boleh tau kot)..

2)masuk-masuk dalam masjid nampak dia nak sedia untuk solat.saya pun cari lah maknya kot-kot ada..tapi takde!!!dan si kecil tu tetap solat walaupun maknya tiada di situ..

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Didikan sejak kecil

Sebenarnya apa yang nak saya sentuh kat sini ialah tentang didikan anak terhadap ilmu agama sejak kecil..bukan hanya teori tapi juga pelaksanaaannya..contohnya tentang solat;Rasulullah sendiri berpesan agar menyuruh anak untuk solat seawal usia 7 tahun, dan pukullah sekiranya anak tidak solat pada usia 10 tahun..tapi kenapa dari usia muda macam tu???

Pepatah melayu ada mengatakan: "melentur buluh biarlah dari rebungnya"...pembinaan peribadi haruslah bermula sejak kecil kerana pada usia yang muda ini,kita lebih mudah mendengar kata dan menerima sesuatu berbanding ketika sudah berusia...bila meningkat remaja, pembentukan akan menjadi sedikit mencabar kerana pada usia ini manusia akan mula memberontak dan hanya mahu mengikut keiinginan sendiri..Jadi,berhati-hati dengan apa yang kita ajarkan pada anak-anak kecil kerana khuatir kita secara tidak sengaja menanamkan sifat negatif dalam diri mereka..

Tidak salah sekiranya kita biasakan anak-anak kecil untuk bersama kita ketika solat walaupun hanya meletakkan dia di sebelah..mudah-mudahan bila besar nanti,akan mudah baginya untuk melaksanakannya kerana ia sudah sebati dalam diri...InsyaAllah

Bermulanya daripada kita

Jangan terkejut kalau ada yang menyatakan bahawa sikap anak-anak akan mengikut sikap ibu bapanya...Sejujurnya saya setuju berdasarkan apa yang saya lihat dan apa yang dengar daripada mereka yang hidup lebih lama daripada saya..Maka dengan itu,berhati-hatilah dengan apa yang kita jadi hari ini agar tidak memberi kesan buruk pada generasi akan datang..fikir dahulu sebelum membuat sesuatu perkara agar kita tidak dipersalahkan oleh anak cucu disebabkan buruknya akhlak kita..

saya tak nak jadi wanita yang menjadi punca seorang ayah derhaka kepada anaknya..huhu

Polymorphism (from what i've learnt in D.D.*) = the ability of a drug substance (solid crystalline) to exist in more than one form.Or to put it in simple words, the ability of something to be in more than one form.


So..what do i mean with polymorphism of rezeki?rezeki pon ade polymorhs ke? :D
from what i understand and believe..yes..
Rezeki tu ada berbagai bentuk dan rupa..sampaikan kadang2 kita tak sedar sesuatu benda tu sebenarnya rezeki yg Allah Taala kurniakan kat kita.


Kita selalu beranggapan rezeki tu apa yg kita makan, wang ringgit,harta benda, anak2, rumah dan yg sewaktu dengannya..tapi sebenarnye skop rezeki tu lagi luas. setiap apa yg kita tengah nikmati, baik yg kita sedar atau tak adalah rezeki..
Ilmu itu adalah rezeki, dapat hidayah dan kemampuan untuk beribadah adalah rezeki..nikmat kesihatan dan kelapangan adalah rezeki...


What's more important is that, kita wajib percaya yg memberi rezeki hanyalah Allah SWT sahaja. Manusia selalu takut untuk memberi sbb takut apa yg ada pada dia akan berkurang..padahal,akan bertambah lg sebenarnya, dek kerana pahala dan jugak keberkatan darinya. Bak kata tuan imam dlm column "Beduk Diketuk" (majalah Solusi) ; rezeki yg berkat tu, walaupun sikit,still mencukupi and kalau banyak,boleh diagih-agihkan..One more thing, manusia ni jugak takut atau kedekut untuk spend masa untuk benda2 kebaikan cthnye mcm dengar ceramah, solat jemaah kat masjid, pegi majlis2 ilmu, etc. Alasannya...masa tu nak digunakan untuk study, kerja dan hal2 duniawi yg lain..We have to remember that,yg menciptakan masa adalah Allah SWT, yg Tuan Punya masa adalah Allah SWT, yg memberikan kita nikmat masa adalah Allah SWT..so,kalo kita gunakan masa tu untuk jalan Allah..insya Allah, Allah akan "tambahkan" masa untuk kita..camne plak tu? :D dgn cara, keberkatan masa tu sendiri la..^_^


Kesimpulannya, rezeki tu ada dlm pelbagai bentuk..dan sebenarnya, terlalu byk rezeki yg Allah Taala dah limpahkan kpd kita,cuma kita je yg tak brape nak sedar. Jadi, jom sama2 mensyukuri rezeki dan nikmat yg Allah berikan! :) 


*p.s: DD = Dosage Design

Salam 'alaik..

After such a long disappearance(eceeeh), I am feeling like speaking of someone whom I believe very important, even sometime we might forgot or accidentally ignored that someone importance.I'm sure you can guess easily who is it.

First of all alhamdulillah,because I'm still be given the chance to be or feeling his love and cares in this world.To be honest, I once felt that he's a cool and almost feeling-less person.Maybe because most matters like schooling during that time was settled by my mom(as I can see it myself without knowing the backstage) and I'm the opposite gender.Until I finished my PMR and get the result, this idea totally change(but i think the 'cool' still there..;p) and it keep stronger as i grow up.

I never know how he feels for any of my achievement until that night(the night after taking my result) when he gave his speech(kebetulan ada majlis farewell for him) and expressed his feeling about me in front of all.and that was really(i really mean it)my first time I saw his inner feeling through his face and tears that he hid.Then I realise that all this while,he's sensitive but he's just not showing it.

As I grew older,I realize that I can see the care he shows more than before especially when my sister got married and I think i can guess what he felt during that time.Then comes few articles that discuss about him indirectly and stroke my heart like don't-know-what-to-say except "Allah!".They make me wanting to understand more about him.

Yes,all above is about someone called father whom we always see his role with one eye only(read:pandang sebelah mata).Someone who try very hard to ensure all our needs are fulfilled.It doesn't mean he ignore us just because he doesn't want to help us getting what we want,but he just want us to be independent so we can survive if anything happen.It doesn't mean he didn't think of us just because he never call or ask how we doing,but he always ask our mother to do it for him(and it's really true!).It doesn't mean he's feeling-less just because he didn't hug you or cry happily when you excel in anything,but deep inside his heart only Allah knows how proud he is.It doesn't mean he's not sad when letting his daughter to the hand of a man, just because we couldn't detect his expression,but we didn't know the list of advices he has given to his son-in-law.

Maybe we couldn't understand hundred percent how a father feel but at least we can try to understand him.For Mars out there,maybe some day you will be in the place of a father, but for me I wouldn't feel how a father would feel.But whatever differences we have,it teaches us more on how to tolerate and understand.

       

Assalammualaikum~

Salam 'alaik..

Life is full of choices.It appears whenever and wherever we are.Making decision wasn't an easy task even to decide either to choose macaroon or gelato ice-cream when you can only pick one.and because of the multiple choices we have, it requires us to search and find out the pros and cons for each from an authentic source/s.And it is also a challenge when you need to make a decision because you decide it without being influence by others.The bigger the number you have in your age, the larger the importance of the "choosing power" that may give great impacts not only to you but may also to others.

YES!!!Do istikharah and ask Him the guidance in choosing the best for you.Thus, you will not regret for what you have chose even how big the tornado come to centrifuge you...IT"S ALL IN OUR HANDS..

At the age of 20...

@>Sometimes we're are hoping for someone to comfort us,but we forgot that He is just there very near than we expect..(50:16)

@>The hard time we had might be a door for better things in life(2:216)

@>Help will always be sent by Him,it's either we realise it or not

@>Just a single trial,you will reveal your inner self without even noticing it.

@>Request couldn't be fulfill just because ready-ness wasn't there

@>"Urgh!!the world is so cruel!!"...."Nope,the cruel one is not the world but it's the species we're in."

@>A light push on a button might not make a machine work..but with a great pressure,even a load of work can be done even it is thought as impossible or hard previously...that's how human might be..

@>Veteran people do have lots of experience that allow them to understand what we have in mind and translate it into words or action without we express it..hohohohoh...^_^

Apa kata anda?

Allah yang menerangi langit dan bumi. Bandingan nur hidayah pertunjuk Allah (Kitab Suci Al-Quran) adalah sebagai sebuah "misykaat" yang berisi sebuah lampu; lampu itu dalam gelok kaca (gandil), gelok itu pula (jernih terang) laksana bintang yang bersinar cemerlang; lampu itu dinyalakan dengan minyak dari pokok yang banyak manfaatnya, (iaitu) pokok zaitun yang bukan sahaja disinari matahari semasa naiknya dan bukan sahaja semasa turunnya (tetapi ia sentiasa terdedah kepada matahari); hampir-hampir minyaknya itu - dengan sendirinya - memancarkan cahaya bersinar (kerana jernihnya) walaupun ia tidak disentuh api (sinaran nur hidayah yang demikian bandingannya adalah sinaran yang berganda-ganda): cahaya berlapis cahaya. Allah memimpin sesiapa yang dikehendakiNya (menurut undang-undang dan peraturanNya) kepada nur hidayahNya itu; dan Allah mengemukakan berbagai-bagai misal perbandingan untuk umat manusia; dan Allah Maha Mengetahui akan tiap-tiap sesuatu.
Terjemahan Dalam Bahasa Inggeris Tafsiran Abdullah Yusuf Ali
Allah is the Light of the heavens and the earth. The Parable of His Light is as if there were a Niche and within it a Lamp: the Lamp enclosed in Glass: the glass as it were a brilliant star: Lit from a blessed Tree, an Olive, neither of the east nor of the west, whose oil is well-nigh luminous, though fire scarce touched it: Light upon Light! Allah doth guide whom He will to His Light: Allah doth set forth Parables for men: and Allah doth know all things. credits to:

http://www3.pmo.gov

Salam 'alaik..

Apa khabar?Harapnya sihat-sihat belaka.Alhamdulillah dah masuk minggu ketiga semester kedua untuk tahun pertama ini bermula.Tapi saya rasa ramai saja yang baru habis cuti kan?Selamat kembali ke kampus dan tidak lupa juga kepada yang bakal menamatkan cuti sekolah...

Minggu lepas pak cik saya baru sahaja selamat dijabkabulkan dan saya juga tumpang gembira bagi pihak nya.Meriah betul.Mana kan tidak,adik-beradik,anak-anak sedara semua datang menggempitakan(woah!!!)rumah nenek.Yang paling best,cucu pun ada meraikan kenduri kahwin atuk sedara...hebatkan!!!hahahahah...Saya rasa tidak terlambat untuk saya ucapkan selamat pengantin baru kepada mereka suami isteri...Semoga kebahagiaan dan keberkatan beriiringan sepanjang hidup..

Sejujurnya,saya suka datang kenduri kahwin dan majlis-majlis sebelum upacara nikah(merisik,tunang)...Eyp..jangan fikir bukan-bukan ye..Bagi saya,majlis-majlis sebegitu sangat unik kerana diwarnai adat resam orang melayu yang diwarisi sejak turun temurun.Namun tidak juga dilupai syariat islamiah yang perlu dititik beratkan.Oh..yang menarik lagi satu adalah berpeluang dapat door gift bila pergi bertandang!!!;p

Mari kita berkongsi sesuatu...kalau di melaka,ada perjanjian yang dikenakan bagi pasangan yang bertunang..Kalau pihak lelaki yang minta putus tunang,semua cincin dan hantaran akan hangus..maksudnya pihak perempuan tak perlu pulangkan..tapi kalau pihak perempuan yang minta putus,dia kena pulangkan cincin dan kena bayar balik dua kali ganda!!!!Dahsyat kan?Bergantung juga kepada budi bicara kedua-dua keluarga juga sebenarnya....Masa akak saya tunang dulu pun takde juga aturan sebegini..tapi bila difikirkan balik, ada juga kebaikan dibuat begini...Jadi,mereka akan fikir sehabis-habisnya sebelum buat apa-apa keputusan..

Kalau yang bernikah di Johor, bagusnya sebab ada keluarga sakinah..Bukan keluarga kepada seorang yang bernama Sakinah ye..Begini, sebelum nikah setiap pengantin akan ditanya beberapa soalan seperti kalimah syahadah, rukun nikah, rukun iman, rukun islam dan sebagainya.Tak lupa juga khutbah untuk pengantin(namanya je untuk pengantin tapi sebenarnya peringatan untuk semua).Selepas akad pula akan ada upacara serah-menyerah..Dari bapa kepada suami dan dari ibu untuk anak perempuan...Yang ini sangat lah touching ye..Tapi saya rasa negeri lain pun dah mula masukkan keluarga sakinah dan ini adalah sangat-sangat bagus!!!

Bunyi macam dah ada pengalaman???Ya,sememangnya ada pengalaman menghadiri majlis sebegitu meraikan orang lain..lagipun itukan pengetahuan am...:D..Seperkara lagi kita kena selalu ingat bahawa perkahwinan bukanlah sekadar menghalalkan hubungan antara dua insan tetapi lebih yang sangat-sangat lebih daripada itu...Apabila sahnya lafaz akad,maka secara automatiknya tanggungjawab terhadap isteri terpikul ke atas suami...bukan sahaja memberi nafkah, malah tanggungjawab melindungi,mendidik serta mentarbiah turut melekat sama..KOMBO sekali..Oh,jangan lupa yang nanti akan turut bersama adalah anak-anak yang menjadi amanah untuk dipikul..Nanti baru tahu sama ada langit itu tinggi atau rendah...JADI,bagi yang berhasrat untuk membina masjid,pastikan anda tanya diri terlebih dahulu sama ada anda bersedia untuk itu semua atau sekurang-kurangnya berusaha ke arah sedia itu(ayat saudara Hilal Asyraf).

nota tumit:Mahu dan sedang mencari buku "Maza yakni" dan Men are from Mars,Women are from Venus".Ada sesiapa yang nak bagi??:p

Okay..so this year..i'm 19
and believe it or not..i feel..quite old already..hahaha(ke mmg da agak tua sbnrnye?XD)